Over Achiever and other Valentine’s stuff

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The kids came home on Friday with all their Valentine’ s goodies. All I have to say is there are a lot of over achievers out there. I can’t imagine how much time it took to make some of the Valentine’s my kids came home with. One of the mother’s I know has 9 other kids! Where does she find the time?

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I admit that I usually help my kids make their Valentine’s, but not this year. They begged and pleaded for the cool store bought generic ones and well I gave in. It was cheap, fast, and easy I love it.

Ash had a 3 day weekend that he turned into a 4 day weekend using some vacation time. We decided to spend the weekend with the kids having fun. Some much needed and long overdue family bonding time. So on Valentine’s day we headed to Salt Lake for the Monster truck rally because we are white trash fun like that. For Ash something like this is a novelty, for me it’s just like every other white trash event my dad ever took me to as a kid. I tried to get out of it, but it was no use.

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The up side is the kids loved it.

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Giving up mine and Ash’s Valentine’s weekend was totally worth it, but I still think Ash owes me a hot Valentine’s date. I’ll let him make it up to me this weekend.

Temple Square

A few months ago with some gentle pushing from my husband I got involved in a fun photography group. It’s called Photowalking Utah. We meet once a month at a different location and take pictures of some of Utah’s best scenery. The greatest part about the group is the different experience levels. I get a chance to learn new tips from the best photographers in the area while seeing new places I hadn’t heard of before.

This month we met at Temple Square to take pictures of the Christmas lights. I have always wanted to go up to Salt Lake with my camera and take the time to get really great pictures of the lights, but around Christmas there never seems to be enough time. This year I made the time and it was worth it.

Here are a few shots from that night.

For more information on Photowalking Utah events you can visit their website.

Resolution

Resolutions have never been a very good idea for me. Lets just be brutally honest, my brain tends to run a little on the ADHD side. Resolutions are just one more thing to fail at.

This year I feel the need for a change. After a long six month pity party I feel some drastic changes are in order.

I have decided that some specific/non-specific resolutions are the way to go (got the idea from igottab). Make sense? Not really, but I’ll try to explain.

This year I resolve to be:

  • that kind of wife
  • that kind of mother
  • that kind of friend

In short, I am going to try and be the kind of wife Ash needs me to be. The kind of mother my kids need me to be, and the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend. I figure that any improvement in these areas will equal success.

On a more personal note, my backside has been hanging on for dear life to the last 7lbs that I need to loose.  I resolve this year to finally shed my body of the remaining excess, even if it kills me. I will try and learn how to finally eat right. I have been using Weight Watchers with much success, but I tend to manipulate the system to still eat the crap food and loose weight instead of eating healthy and loosing the weight.

So what are you working on for the new year?

Year End Review

I think that 2008 was a hard year for many. Can we collectively decide to put 2008 on a shelf and forget it ever happened? For me 2007 is already on the denial shelf, and 2008 will be joining it.

Now in all fairness 2008 wasn’t all bad, some really great things happened. I guess 2008 just had really high highs and very low lows. Lets just focus on the positive shall we?

My wonderful mother-in-law won her battle with cancer and is enjoying renewed health and happiness. Miracles happen and prayers are answered. With her new found health they decided to embark on an adventure of a life time and accepted a call to serve a two year mission. Not only is this great for them, but it is such an awesome example for my kids especially my boys.

Ash got a new job, and is loving every minute of it. I have never seen him this happy and fulfilled. He works with great people and looks forward to going to work everyday. More importantly he is finally getting the recognition for being the genius that I always knew he was. He is enjoying the success he deserves.

The kids and I had an awesome carefree summer and hated to see it end. We played and had lots of fun adventures. We enjoyed visits from cousins and explored fun places in Utah.

In September our baby started kindergarten and this was very bitter sweet. For me more bitter than sweet. Cole is loving every minute of it, but sometimes thinks he should get to choose which days he goes and what days he stays home and hangs out with mom. He doesn’t quit get the idea that school isn’t a choice.

Ash in his wisdom knew that I wouldn’t handle this as well as I thought I would and encouraged me to pick up an old hobby I had long forgotten about. So for my birthday I got a new camera and have been filling my time with picture taking.

The very best thing about 2008 is the family time we have spent together. We as a family are better than we have ever been. We have really learned this year how wonderful our friends are and are grateful for everyone of you. We really have the greatest family and friends and are truly blessed, and that is what I am going to take away from 2008. The rest… good riddance!

Road Trip

*While going through the archives of my blog I realized I somehow overlooked posting this. It is really really old, but I think worth sharing.

Last year we started a new family tradition. We go down to Manti for the pageant. Last year was our first time, and it was so much fun I decided we need to do this every year. One of these times we need to get daddy to come along. He is conveniently busy every time we plan to go. This year Sadie was off at girls camp so she missed the fun to.

Last year we went with some good friends of ours, but this year they are on a fun family trip to Costa Rica so we are on our own. We packed a picnic lunch and blankets for when the sun went down and we headed out around 4:00. Cole quickly fell asleep and we had a peaceful ride all the way down to Nephi where we decided to stop for a potty break. I went around to get Cole out and realized that he wasn’t wearing any shoes. For those of you who know him this won’t be surprising. He rarely has shoes on and when he does they are quickly discarded. I usually keep an extra pair in the car just in case. I’ve learned my lesson after having to stop and buy him a new pair of shoes multiple times. I should have know to check for shoes but I was in a hurry and didn’t.

After a brief stop to potty (caring Cole so he doesn’t touch the gross floor) and get treats we continued on our trip. We got there, found parking, reserved our seats and then sat down for a picnic dinner. The kids would have preferred that we buy corn dogs and pizza but with gas prices through the roof I decided to we would picnic it. We looked around some of the booths and then got a treat before the pageant started.

Dallin and Cole took off for the bathroom and I didn’t remember that he had bare feet until I saw him hobbling back on the gravel road. He got to ride in the stroller the rest of the night.

We had about an hour to kill until it was dark enough for the pageant to start. The protesters were out in full force and were really interrupting. They are usually there every year, but never interrupt that much. This year they were more vocal and would shout things during the performance whenever there was a quit moment. The police were there to keep them in check, but it didn’t seem to be working.

The kids took turns taking pictures while we waited for the performance to begin, and some of them turned out really cute. The show was great as always. Cole made it about 3/4 the way through before passing out from exhaustion, and Gavin was out before the show began.

We left about 11:30 and didn’t make it home until almost 2 am. I am totally wiped out today, but it was worth it.

Just not feeling it

I just really haven’t felt much like blogging lately. I’ve been really busy and have lots I could say, I just haven’t felt like it.

So instead of a real blog post, here are some cute pictures I’ve taken of my kids lately. I was going for a real contrasty look, what do you think?

Fall Colors are in Full Swing on the Alpine Loop

Most photographers would agree that taking pictures of your own family is the hardest. Photographers children tend to do one of three things A) Act like complete super models, B) completely clam up, flop to the ground in the fetal position or C) make the most obnoxious goofy faces.

Sadie and Dallin tend to fall in the super model category and poor Cole rotates between the fetal position and goofy faces. Needless to say getting decent family pictures for our Christmas cards is no small feat.

We ventured up the canyon this weekend to enjoy the beautiful fall colors and attempt some decent shots of the kids. As soon as we got up there I realized that it was much MUCH colder than I thought it was going to be so we had to make it really quick.

Considering all the obstacles I think they turned out pretty decent.

And one really goofy one just for the fun of it.

Then just for fun a goofy one.

WordCamp

I’m off the hear my hubby speak at Wordpress’s WordCamp. He’ll be speaking on his specialty SEO.

Intelligence is really sexy on him!

Photowalking Provo

Ash and I attended our first photowalk on Saturday, and had a great time. We had a chance to go in studio with a living legend, Kenneth Linge. He does amazing work and it is an honor to get tips from someone so remarkable.

Here are a few pictures from that night.

Head Shots

I had so much fun shooting these pictures. He was so easy to photograph, he knows how to work the camera.
These pictures are head shots for his acting portfolio, he does mostly theatre but wants to get into other areas of the industry (I’m nosy, I asked).

Lighting Demo

I attended a lighting demo on Saturday and had a great time taking pictures of this cutie. She was oh so sweet and loved having her picture taken. Here are just a few raw images from the shoot, I haven’t touched any of them up yet.

Girls Just Want to Have Fun

This is what happens when your teenage daughter gets a hold of your camera.

Love Letter

Dear Prince Charming

This morning while snuggled up in our bed I wished to myself then outloud that we could just stay like that all day. I was inturupted by the sound of the alarm demanding that the day begin. I sent you on your way this morning breakfast in hand, and children in tow, wishing that we could spend the whole day together.

That reminds me I love that you get up 30 minutes before you need to so I can stay home while you take the kids to school.

I love that you open the window at night when it’s raining because you know how much I love to listen to the rain.

I love that you know just what I need even when sometimes I don’t even know myself.

I love the cute look on your face when you are suprising me with something, and you just can’t wait another second to tell me.

I love that you feel it is just as important as I do that I spend these years while the kids are young at home with them, and that you work so hard to make that happen.

I love that you encourage me and sometimes push me to go after my dreams. I need a little nudge every once and awhile.

But most of all I just love you

Happy 14th anniversary baby! It just keeps getting better!

Feeling Yucky

It’s finally happened. I tried to pretend it wasn’t happening. I thought that if I ignored it long enough it would just go away, but it didn’t and now I have to admit it…

I’m sick.

This never NEVER happens. The up side is my sweet darling hubby is taking very good care of me. He is spoiling me with juice and medicine and plenty of sleep. If he keeps this up I may just decide to be sick forever.

Exerting his Independence

From the back seat

Cole: “Mom drop me off at the corner so I can walk home all by myself.”

Me: “Why”

Cole: “Because I’m a big boy, and I can do it.”

Me: “OK, but not out by the main road. You can walk home from the bottom of the hill.”

Cole: (As he is getting out of the car) “Don’t worry mom I’ll make sure no one snatches me.”